ScruffyDL
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- Diaper Lover
For me I shared with my now wife within the first month of our relationship. I was 26 years old and she was just 21. It was a big thing to me that I felt both comfortable with sharing my secret with her and the fact that I already trusted her. I think, subconsciously, I was trying to see if it would scare her away. Today we are approaching 33 years married and three grown children so we must be doing something right.
What I did was simply mention that I have worn diapers and sometimes want to. I was not very active at that time due to living with my parents and going to college. She had questions but I think we both had a strong connection that we wanted to accept each. I think she already knew my insecurities and my family life enough as she had similar up bringing which is what formed the basis of our trust and early relationship.
I did not indulge in my DL side for our first years. It was the birth of our first child that sparked me. I was 30 years old and living in Brazil. I ended up getting my first real adult diapers at that time. On weekends I would become little. We repatriated back to the USA and I stopped for a while. I had always struggled with my DL desires. This site helped me rationalize the fact that I am a DL and I began to accept it. I do my best to not overdo it.
What I did was simply mention that I have worn diapers and sometimes want to. I was not very active at that time due to living with my parents and going to college. She had questions but I think we both had a strong connection that we wanted to accept each. I think she already knew my insecurities and my family life enough as she had similar up bringing which is what formed the basis of our trust and early relationship.
I did not indulge in my DL side for our first years. It was the birth of our first child that sparked me. I was 30 years old and living in Brazil. I ended up getting my first real adult diapers at that time. On weekends I would become little. We repatriated back to the USA and I stopped for a while. I had always struggled with my DL desires. This site helped me rationalize the fact that I am a DL and I began to accept it. I do my best to not overdo it.